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Friday, June 29, 2012

Once Upon a June 29th...

2011 a happily married couple arrived at St. Vincents Hospital at 5:30 in the morning.  They were there for the induction of their first child.  A boy to be named Phoenix Michael Lang.  They were escorted to room 330 and the life changing event began progressing.  At exactly 1:36 p.m. on this Wednesday, the most perfect boy joined their family.  Weighing in at 8 pounds, 8 ounces and 21 1/2" long.



This year the happily married couple have learned more than they thought possible.  This baby has brought more to their lives then they could have ever dreamt up.  He defines their family.  He has taught them what it truly means to be "a happily married couple."  He is more than they deserve but are so blessed God has entrusted this being to them.  He gives them their happy ending.


Phoenix is the king of temper-tantrums.  He is the king of kisses.  The king of good-bye.  The king of eating.  The king of sleeping.  The king of DaDa.  The king of the Lang family.


He is wearing a size 4 diaper.  He constantly repeats DaDa, bye-bye and many other phrases which we are unable to comprehend.    He also tries thank-you, which sounds more like ta-ya, mainly at appropriate times.  He recently picked up the word duck.  Whenever he sees a duck, which is all the time around here now, he points and says duck.  Just imagine how thrilled it makes me to hear my little Buttah say it!!!  He has also said bath.  I've heard a few other words but not consistently enough to count them.  However, still no Mama :(  He points to the things he wants and when he sees something interesting and new to him.  He attempts to sing along to Roger Day in the car.  He claps, laughs, and dances at appropriate times during a movie or television show.  He listens when appropriate and blabs and rambles when he has something to say.  He is great at climbing over the armrest of the couch to get down. He has also started this new thing of acting like he is washing his hands whenever I go get him from his bed.  I immediately go to the sanitizer before getting him (because I'm normally cleaning while he naps) and he now rubs his hands together like I do and then signs more.  It is the cutest thing ever!!!    He holds the home and cell phones to his hear and points the remotes directly at the t.v.  He climbs on Everything. He is great at playing alone.  He is great at walking with his walkers or while holding a hand.  Still waiting on the "real" first steps though.  He is still using his signs.  He loves flipping through books and loves having story time during baths (el patito en la banera).  He enjoys water-the splash pad, his baby pools, a big pool, the tub-whatever it is as long as water is involved.  Loves going to the zoo, the grocery store, the movies and the library.  I ask him if he wants to go bye-bye and he reaches up for me and says bye bye, bye bye.  I love that he enjoys going places and experiencing new things.



He loves playing in his room.  He'd rather be up there than in the den or the playroom.  I find him climbing the stairs throughout the day just to get there.  I guess its a good thing, just makes it that much harder to get anything done.  I also sing our bath song and he immediately gets excited and heads straight for the stairs.  At the top, he goes quickly to the bathroom and starts trying to climb into the tub.  I love how much he comprehends!

He has also gotten a ton better about not putting things in his mouth.  Now, whenever he picks up something, he immediately tries handing it over to you.  I am so glad that he is finally realizing that not everything is edible!  Saves mama from A LOT of heart attacks!!!

He loves having teeth.  He has 6 total now and takes full advantage of them.  He no longer likes his food pureed.  He wants "big boy" food only and he wants to feed himself.  Either by hand(s) or with a spoon.  A lot easier for mama, seeing that I no longer have to make a meal and then puree it.  He just eats whatever we are eating.  However, I now have to cook lunch everyday as well.  He loves apples and peaches.  Anything he can bite his teeth into.  He also takes great care of them, as he loves brushing his teeth forever.  We are slowly working on weening him off the boobster.  He drinks great from sippy cups, straw cups, water bottles and even regular cups, so I'm hoping this transition will come easier than I'm anticipating.


In preparation for the big 1 year, I decided we'd start trying to ween off the boobster.  He has done well with it for the most part.  He still gets very fussy when he wants to nurse, but loves milk!  I am down to nursing once a day in the morning, which is great for me!!!  He just doesn't seem ready to give up that first feed yet.  We had a minor set-back after he ate 6 day old clam chowder (not to my knowledge was it clam chowder, much less 6 days old), but are back on schedule again.  First day with ZERO boobster feedings-June, 27, 2012.  Definitely one for the books!!!  Of course, that only lasted one day.  He is now nursing 1 time a day.  If he wants it, I do not deny.  However, I definitely try and turn his attention to something else.  Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.

Speaking of-can you believe my disappointment when the doctor said he shouldn't have cake on his birthday or at his party.  She said it would be too much on his stomach as he fights this chowder thing.  My heart literally sank :(  However, I have a feeling this kid (or this mama) isn't going to let that happen.  No cake means chocolate chip pancakes for breakfast!!!



He favors his left hand in all he does.  This makes me happy because it'll just be that much easier to teach him to write and throw a ball.  I am excited to have a left-hander (praying it doesn't change), as they make better athletes!!!!  Very important in our house!!!


We are on a fairly great schedule.  I'm trying hard to avoid that mid-day nap.  I really want him to be down to 2 a day, however there are just some days he needs it.  He tries really hard to take that mid-day nap still between 11:30-12:00, so I have to be careful not to be in the car too long during that time.  He wakes between 5:30-6:00.  He has breakfast immediately.  Then he has alone play time.  I am not trying to neglect him-just teach him more independence.  Then at 8:00 he goes down for a nap until about 10:00.  He wakes and we either hit the road for errands or our daily adventure.  We come home, depending on time and have lunch.  We then play and do our learning lessons.  Then between 1:30-2:00 he goes down for another nap.  He normally gets up around 4:00.  We try and go outside, on another adventure, or just play together.  Dada gets home for some play time usually around 5:30.  I try and have him bathed and sometimes fed, but Dada likes having dinner together.  Because of this, we are trying to push dinner back until 6:00.  He then plays a few more minutes with Dada while drinking a cup of milk.  We then put the sleep sac on and DaDa takes him upstairs, rocks him for a minute (Jason says he needs the bonding time with Phoenix, so its more for him than Phoenix), then puts him down for bed.  He goes straight down without a sound.

Jason has decided to start a new tradition with him on his birthday every year.  He wants to take him to Hooters-just the men.  I don't mind it, knowing Jason goes for the love of the wings and NOTHING else!!!! I agreed, but told him it cannot fall on his exact birthday, as I want to celebrate with him.  Well, this year is different.  I demanded they go on Friday so I can do all my food prep for the big celebration tomorrow.  I am a bit sad by it, but I know seeing him tomorrow at his party with all his family and friends will make it worth it.

He is ALL boy!  He loves trucks, tires, big machines, mowing the yard and driving DaDa's truck to name a few!


Phoenix woke to Mama and DaDa singing happy birthday to him.  We then went down for a chocolate chip pancake breakfast, candle and all!!!  We have no big plans today other than to finish up preparing for his party tomorrow, but it'll just be nice being together off and on as a family.  And I'm sure Phoenix will love going on his birthday dinner tradition outing with DaDa tonight!!!






He has his first birthday party tomorrow from 2-4 and he goes to the doctor next week for his one year checkup.  Many posts to follow!  I can't believe the temperature is suppose to get up over 100-Lord help us all!!!

Monday, June 25, 2012

In Honor of Birthday Week...

I'd thought I would share some pictures of what we've been up to lately.  I can't believe that this week, Friday, my sweet baby will be turning one.

















A Reason to Celebrate DaDa

Thank whoever it was that came up with the wonderful day of Father's Day.  It was a very special day for us as we celebrated Jason's first Father's Day as a Dad.  We had a wonderful day together as a family.  I love the bond that Phoenix and Jason have and wouldn't change ANYTHING about their relationship.


Jason had fun doing Phoenix's hair this particular day.  Actually it was a phase that lasted for a few.  I can only imagine what he'll do if we have a daughter!

We started off Father's Day with a pancake breakfast.  We then opened presents.  Phoenix got DaDa a book, 100 Reasons a Son Needs His Father.  He mainly got it because it was written by an author named Gregory Lang, which also happens to be Jason's Dads name.  We thought it was appropriate.  He also got him 2 shirts and a tub of vitalyte.  Nothing big, but it was nice to be able to celebrate for the first time in his life this special day.



We then went to church.  After church, we had our annual church picnic.  We had lunch and cake.  Phoenix also got to ride a pony for the first time in his life.  He looks unsure of the experience, but seemed to enjoy it more than not.  





After the picnic we headed home for naps.  Naps for the whole family!  We then packed it up and headed to my Goddaughter's 2nd Birthday.  I can't believe my sweet girl is already 2.  We had a blast at her luau party.  It was also nice being there together as a family, spending it with even more family.  I love you to the moon and back my sweet Victoria.  May God grant you many, many more years of health and happiness!




So as you can tell, we had a wonderful Father's Day.  Jason spoils Phoenix and I so much that it was nice to be able to spoil him a bit.  We are very blessed to have such a wonderful role-model and partner to go through life with.  We love you to the moon and back DaDa.



Sunday, June 10, 2012

In Good Hands

Phoenix has a group of "Aunts" that love him as much as they love their own.  This group of 4 women have been a Godsend in our lives.  They mean the world to Phoenix, Jason and myself.

Thursday, I dropped Phoenix off with his Aunt Kissa Kissa while I went to a doctor's appointment.  I was constantly receiving texts with pictures showing how wonderful of a time he was having.  He was soo comfortable being with her from the second I dropped him off.  Made my heart happy :)

As my appointment went on and the texts rolled in, I realized more people came to join their party.  His Aunt Jenn Jenn and his Aunt K K also showed up to love on my sweet baby while I was away.  Aunt La La wasn't able to attend but we know she was there in spirit!  They are true examples of what friendship is.  They all knew how hard it was for me to leave him, so they dropped what they were doing, loaded up their own kiddos and headed over to be there with my baby.  Just thinking about how lucky we are brings tears to my eyes.

Loving all the "boy" toys at Aunt Kissa Kissa's.

Phoenix and Thomas playing ball.

Love from Aunt Jenn Jenn!

Enjoying puzzle time!!!

Aunt K K is always full of spunk!!!

Walker showing me his toys.  He was kind enough to pass them down to Phoenix!!! 
Mama who???!!!


Aunt Kissa Kissa was too busy taking the pictures, feeding my baby muffins she made for him, playing on the floor with him and loving on him to have her picture taken.  Aunt Kissa Kissa-you will never realize the amount of love my heart felt with each text I received that day.  Thank you.

To all my HWCH (House Wives of Cahaba Heights).  I love you all dearly.  I am soo blessed to have each and every one of you in our lives.  Phoenix is one lucky kid.  You guys are the greatest friends ever!  We thank God each night for the 4 of you and your families.  Thank you all soo much for loving and caring for my baby.



Sunday, June 3, 2012

Making Memories

Friday after getting tubes, Phoenix was doing great.  So great, I thought it'd be a brilliant idea to meet my parents and sister and her family at the lake for a day on the boat the very next day.  Jason was working all day, so why not.  We headed out about 9:00 without a morning nap.  Got down there to find the battery on the boat was DEAD.  The girls enjoyed their time jumping in and swimming at the pier.  Phoenix wasn't allowed to get wet, so he hung out in the inner-tube on dry land.  He did attempt to venture in the water, but quickly decided he didn't like it!!!  At about 11 or so, the kiddos all got hungry so we picnicked in the back of my car.




After sending Brian off to Wal Mart to buy a new battery (quicker than waiting on the other to charge), we finally loaded up.  Phoenix HATED the life jacket with a passion.  I tried to force it but eventually gave up.  I was able to get him to take about a 30 minute nap in my arms on the boat, which was absolutely amazing to me.  We enjoyed the afternoon riding the lake, fishing, tubing and eating.



After the cops spotted him without a life jacket, turned around to pull us over and all, I forced him to wear it.  The ONLY way he was happy when it was on was when he was driving the boat.  The kid loves to be in charge.  



Around 5 or so, we finally decided to call it a day.  Phoenix was exhausted, hungry and starting to get very fussy.  We had a great day spending time with cousins, aunt and uncle and grandparents.  We look forward to many more days on the boat this summer.  I also can't wait for Jason to join us.  I have no doubts him and Phoenix will be in the water most of the time.  I also won't be surprised if he puts Phoenix on the inner-tube with him for a fun ride!

On a side note-Please continue to pray for Phoenix.  He had a great day yesterday but was constantly pulling on his ears.  This morning he seemed better.  However, this afternoon was a nightmare.  He was again refusing to eat and nap and was constantly pulling his ears and crying.  I'm not sure if this is normal or not, but I plan on speaking to the doctor tomorrow about it.